The goal of a behavior modification school is simply to modify the behavior. That is the end of their interest, in most cases. They are not interested in making your child a healthy and productive adult; they are interested simply in getting your child to follow their rules.

Those rules aren’t constructed for the best interest of society, but for the best interest of the school – making it easier to run the school, and manage a large number of children with a small number of staff.

The purpose of a behavior modification school is, initially, a noble one: to help parents with their problem children. The trouble with these schools is that they don’t have any vested interest in the future success and happiness of your children.

If you’re considering a behavior modification school, it’s probably because you recognize that it’s a full time job to handle your one child. Imagine having sixty or more of them. NO level of expertise or education can make that easy.

Over time, the focus of the school changes from efficiency in results to efficiency in operation, and the children are treated less like the individuals they are – simply because there are not enough staff to handle the workload.

While this may do a reasonable job of preparing your child for a life in unskilled menial labor, perhaps at a fast food restaurant, it doesn’t do a very good job of preparing a child for future success… whether in college, or in business.

For a more balanced approach to modifying your child’s behavior, it’s worth the time to check into various systems like James Lehman’s, which provide you the tools to manage your child’s behavior at home.

With your involvement, you can be sure that your child’s education and training are in line with your values and ideals. Instead of letting other people raise your child with the priorities that matter to them, in an environment that doesn’t match the real world where the rest of us live, you can ensure that your child is given the skills and behaviors that really matter – the skills that can make them healthy and productive members of our modern society.

Overall, the results you’ll find with a program you can implement at home are well worth the extra time and effort you put into it.

Parents – before you send you kid away, do something that will teach you skills as well as help your child. I highly recommend The Total Transformation Program, by James Lehman.